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Being a couple

After being an individual comes being a couple we live this life and we grow were born into sin born into our family born into this world with a certain set of skills talents certain DNA certain chromosomes we are shaped by the environment that we live in and mold it to be the individual that we are then we meet another individual fall in love get married Planet family we have to separate identities two separate individuals together to make one individual couple there are no two people in the world that are like and there are no two marriages in the world that are like two totally different people makeup one totally different marriage that's the basics that is number one coupling marriage 101 to understand.

Learning to be an individual helps keep us Focus for actions on oneself all about examining you for your actions assessing situations for the best Solutions but when you become a couple you should carry that finger pointing to yourself over still continue to examine yourself in your marriage it's not always delightful to point the finger at your spouse you cannot change a person other than yourself you can reflect certain actions that you would like your spouse to reflect but you cannot change that person be the person you want the other person to be show them so they can mimic we learn by seeing not by being told.

Save yourself some heartache and don't even compare your marriage with someone else's marriage sure there are times where you can learn from other couples maybe in areas of communication or maybe in areas of romantic outings or ideas to keep things spicy we can look towards different couples for advice if they're Godly couples and marriages but as far as I wish my husband was more like this or I wish my wife would clean like that no don't do it it's not worth it when everyone in the world are different individuals no two people are alike.

I'm back to getting advice from Godly couples you really just cannot get advice from anyone they have to be someone who has an expertise in the area which you're lacking someone who follows God and their marriage shows that they follow the lord but most importantly advice from anyone just comes from God himself his word the Bible speaks on marriage the Bible speaks on how we should be as people and good people make good marriages so if you want to compare or you want to pair a little yourself to anything anyway the Bible is the perfect place to start on working on having a healthy happy righteous marriage

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