After being an individual comes being a couple we live this life and we grow were born into sin born into our family born into this world with a certain set of skills talents certain DNA certain chromosomes we are shaped by the environment that we live in and mold it to be the individual that we are then we meet another individual fall in love get married Planet family we have to separate identities two separate individuals together to make one individual couple there are no two people in the world that are like and there are no two marriages in the world that are like two totally different people makeup one totally different marriage that's the basics that is number one coupling marriage 101 to understand. Learning to be an individual helps keep us Focus for actions on oneself all about examining you for your actions assessing situations for the best Solutions but when you become a couple you should carry that finger pointing to yourself over still continue to examine yourself in...